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What if dating wasn’t about small talk or speed rounds, but about genuine connection? In this episode of Sex in Berlin, host Nike sits down with Momo, the creator of charming theys. Momo hosts inclusive dating events for asexual, aromantic, and queer communities in Berlin. Together they talk about love beyond sex, why cake has become a symbol of the ace community, and how safe, playful spaces can help people connect more openly. From creative conversation games to unexpected love stories, this episode explores new ways of redefining intimacy and togetherness.

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In this episode of Sex in Berlin, Nike welcomes Brazilian pleasure activist, sex educator, and erotic author Ana Ornelas aka pimentacitrica for an open and inspiring conversation about the politics of pleasure. Pimenta shares how her work began with educating people about sexuality, intimacy, and the clitoris through workshops and online resources, and how it evolved into broader activism aimed at challenging censorship and advocating for sexual rights. She speaks passionately about the importance of reclaiming pleasure. Especially for women, queer people, and marginalized communities as a path to personal freedom and empowerment.

Alongside this deep dive into her activism,...

In this raw and refreshing episode, host Nike speaks with Danielle Keiser, menstrual health advocate and Holistic Women's Health Coach about what it really means to live, love, and have sex while bleeding. From Berlin's sex-positive parties to the everyday realities of endometriosis and hormonal shifts, Danielle opens up about the challenges and beauty of cyclical living.

Together, they explore how menstruation is still taboo even in liberated spaces and why we urgently need more open conversations, better infrastructure, and more curiosity around the menstrual cycle. Whether it's navigating sex on your period, managing your energy through each phase, or...

In this episode of Sex in Berlin, host Nike dives into the often-overlooked world of lubricants with two inspiring women, Katie from Vögeln and Avelina from LubeLab. Together, they unpack the stigma surrounding lube, why it’s essential for both sexual pleasure and health, and how the industry is evolving.

Katie shares her personal journey with HPV and how it inspired her to develop a new kind of lubricant that will offer STI protection - aiming to create a safer, more empowering alternative to traditional condoms. Avelina brings expert insight into the ingredients we put on (and in) our bodies, the...

In this episode Sex in Berlin is kindly presentend bei lustery
Nike talks to queer activist and sex worker Violet Beau about a topic often clouded by shame but full of potential for intimacy: “dirty talk”. Why does it make us nervous? What makes it sexy – or totally awkward? And could a plate of lasagna actually help you get better at it?

Together, they break down clichés and show that dirty talk isn’t just about explicit words – it’s also about trust, intimacy, and finding a language that feels truly your own.

An episode full of practical tips, honest...

Several times a year, couples and sex therapist, sex worker and mediator Lenia Soley organizes “Women's Sex Retreats” at the Oberlethe farm near Oldenburg.

What may sound like an orgy lasting several days is in fact a gathering of around 12 women who spend a long weekend exploring their sexuality, their bodies and their biographies and experiencing themselves anew through self-awareness and community.

The Oberlethe farm looks inconspicuous from the outside, but the grounds reveal a beautifully restored half-timbered house with a thatched roof and comfortably restored accommodation.

This year, Lenia held her very first “Women’s Sex Festival” - also...

Hot, sex-positive kangaroos and kinky communities — Sex in Berlin takes the conversation to the next level with Sex in Australia.

From living in a hetero-normative marriage with children to finding one's identifying as polyamorous, slutty, kinky, genderfluid and queer, the sexological bodyworker Jeremy Shub discusses with Nike how traditional gender roles are challenged, what a bodywork session entails and the special moments and insights that have shaped Jeremy's journey as a sexological bodyworker.

Nike also speaks with Charlie, a director, producer, and designer, about their work with diverse artists and organizations to deepen their understanding of the senses and...

Today Nike will take you to the topic of “orgies”. Group sex scenarios are one of the most common fantasies or wishes, but at the same time they are rarely realized.

Before an orgy, there can be so many questions. Do I want to participate alone? How do I deal with jealousy? What is discussed beforehand? That's why in this episode Nike is talking to Josie and Karmann, a couple who lately went on the island to shoot a super entertaining porn reality TV show for Lustery where they had their first ever orgy.

Also, Nike will talks to Paulita...

Most people watch porn. And most people go to the cinema - at least once in a while. But why don't we go to the cinema to watch porn there?

The Pornfilmfestival Berlin is a special kind of experience and at the same time it's as commonplace as brushing your teeth. At least if you like porn and going to the cinema. Because the festival shows that porn can be more than “just” masturbation material and should therefore be appropriately honored on a big screen like all other film genres.

The pioneering festival has a large and diverse selection of...

In this episode Nike takes you to Skirt Club, a global network for bisexual and bi-curious women with around 40.000 members worldwide. They also organize sexpositive Events such as play parties.

Nike lately visited the Mini-Skirt “Bad Bunny” and talks about her experience there and what “spin the bottle” in a BDSM dungeon has to do with it. She also invited Vanessa who organizes Skirt Club events and already attended many of them herself.

In this episode, she talks about the prejudices that bisexual women face, the rules at Skirt Club and the journey of exploring her own sexuality.

And...