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Let’s Talk Dirty, Baby! - How to Dirty Talk with Violet Beau

Let’s Talk Dirty, Baby! - How to Dirty Talk with Violet Beau

31m 1s

In this episode Sex in Berlin is kindly presentend bei lustery
Nike talks to queer activist and sex worker Violet Beau about a topic often clouded by shame but full of potential for intimacy: “dirty talk”. Why does it make us nervous? What makes it sexy – or totally awkward? And could a plate of lasagna actually help you get better at it?

Together, they break down clichés and show that dirty talk isn’t just about explicit words – it’s also about trust, intimacy, and finding a language that feels truly your own.

An episode full of practical tips, honest...

#22 Sex in Oberlethe: Women’s Sex Festival by Therapist and Sexworker Lenia Soley

#22 Sex in Oberlethe: Women’s Sex Festival by Therapist and Sexworker Lenia Soley

32m 34s

Several times a year, couples and sex therapist, sex worker and mediator Lenia Soley organizes “Women's Sex Retreats” at the Oberlethe farm near Oldenburg.

What may sound like an orgy lasting several days is in fact a gathering of around 12 women who spend a long weekend exploring their sexuality, their bodies and their biographies and experiencing themselves anew through self-awareness and community.

The Oberlethe farm looks inconspicuous from the outside, but the grounds reveal a beautifully restored half-timbered house with a thatched roof and comfortably restored accommodation.

This year, Lenia held her very first “Women’s Sex Festival” - also...

#17 Sex in Australia: Sexological Bodywork, Play Parties, Sex Performances and Queer Art

#17 Sex in Australia: Sexological Bodywork, Play Parties, Sex Performances and Queer Art

42m 29s

Hot, sex-positive kangaroos and kinky communities — Sex in Berlin takes the conversation to the next level with Sex in Australia.

From living in a hetero-normative marriage with children to finding one's identifying as polyamorous, slutty, kinky, genderfluid and queer, the sexological bodyworker Jeremy Shub discusses with Nike how traditional gender roles are challenged, what a bodywork session entails and the special moments and insights that have shaped Jeremy's journey as a sexological bodyworker.

Nike also speaks with Charlie, a director, producer, and designer, about their work with diverse artists and organizations to deepen their understanding of the senses and...

#14 Sex on Majorca - Breathtaking orgies, secret sex parties & beach adventures

#14 Sex on Majorca - Breathtaking orgies, secret sex parties & beach adventures

32m 37s

Today Nike will take you to the topic of “orgies”. Group sex scenarios are one of the most common fantasies or wishes, but at the same time they are rarely realized.

Before an orgy, there can be so many questions. Do I want to participate alone? How do I deal with jealousy? What is discussed beforehand? That's why in this episode Nike is talking to Josie and Karmann, a couple who lately went on the island to shoot a super entertaining porn reality TV show for Lustery where they had their first ever orgy.

Also, Nike will talks to Paulita...

#12 Sex in Berlin - “Even vanilla is a kink”: Live from the 19th Pornfilmfestival

#12 Sex in Berlin - “Even vanilla is a kink”: Live from the 19th Pornfilmfestival

31m 56s

Most people watch porn. And most people go to the cinema - at least once in a while. But why don't we go to the cinema to watch porn there?

The Pornfilmfestival Berlin is a special kind of experience and at the same time it's as commonplace as brushing your teeth. At least if you like porn and going to the cinema. Because the festival shows that porn can be more than “just” masturbation material and should therefore be appropriately honored on a big screen like all other film genres.

The pioneering festival has a large and diverse selection of...

#11 Sex in the world - Bisexuality, Skirt Club and global connections

#11 Sex in the world - Bisexuality, Skirt Club and global connections

40m 6s

In this episode Nike takes you to Skirt Club, a global network for bisexual and bi-curious women with around 40.000 members worldwide. They also organize sexpositive Events such as play parties.

Nike lately visited the Mini-Skirt “Bad Bunny” and talks about her experience there and what “spin the bottle” in a BDSM dungeon has to do with it. She also invited Vanessa who organizes Skirt Club events and already attended many of them herself.

In this episode, she talks about the prejudices that bisexual women face, the rules at Skirt Club and the journey of exploring her own sexuality.

And...

#9 Sex in Berlin - Oily sensuality, collective trauma, healing & sex-positive activism

#9 Sex in Berlin - Oily sensuality, collective trauma, healing & sex-positive activism

27m 25s

"Sexuality is the superpower we need": In this episode, Katharina Krauss alias Muse Meduse talks about the event series "Liquid Love", which she organizes together with Victoria Etherington.

Nike also visited "Liquid Love" and talks to Kathi about what liquid love actually means in a safer space. Kathi also explains what her meduse tattoo has to do with sexuality and sensuality and why she sees her work as sex-positive activism. Victoria tells us her intimate and touching story about how she started her healing with liquid love and why her first liquid love event was so special.

But above all,...